Visiting your brother at college last weekend

I realize that a 15 hour van ride and missing the Halloween weekend was a big sacrifice...but once we got there it was clear how much you missed each other. It was amazing to see you all together and enjoying the moment.

In the end, after cleaning the kitchen where four young men live, taking out the garbage and washing my sons clothes, I spent most of the time just watching and waiting. Taking your roomates out for lunch and hearing the stories about "remember when Dad did this or said this..." made me a little sad to realize that it went so fast. It also reminded me that there was a time we all lived together (BD) (before the divorce...).

The campus ws beautiful and it was their first chance to see a college campus, that was separate from the city.