You decided not to go out for sports in college and let me know by email

I think it was early last year, when I said ...either he will go out or he will quit...there is no in between...

Your sister told me when you talked to her last week when you went off to college, that you said...

"I am not going to wrestle....Dad is going to be pissed off and mad at me..."

She said " yeah, he will be upset for a little while, but he loves you no matter what you do...you know that"

The fact that this is a sport you have excelled at, and you would have some very top wrestlers to work out with (which is key to getting better...) and be in a top 10 wrestling program only makes it worse when you get older and realize what an opportunity you had before you and you will regret your decision.

You already knew how I felt about you wrestling in college...what I have always felt...do it for yourself and not me....

So I left the decision to you...